Emotional Development means developing a full range of emotions, from sad to happy to angry, and learning to handle them appropriately. This leads to deeper qualities – sympathy, caring, resilience, self-esteem, assertiveness and being able to rise to life's challenges.
Emerging Skills
Concentrate on an activity for 20 to 30 minutes
Identify and talk about feelings in relation to events
Experience positive feelings about themselves and what they can do
Separate easily from family in familiar surroundings
Recognize another's need for help and give assistance
Through the comfort and responsiveness of an adult, preschoolers will learn how to handle their emotions and how to seek help when needed.
Parents Can:
Monitor and identify stresses that may cause experiences to be negative
Prepare their preschooler for a stressful situation ahead of time
Child Will:
Experience lower stress levels
Learn how to use strategies to deal with new and stressful situations
Feel secure with parental support
Parents Can:
Offer opportunities for their preschooler to develop her strengths and talents
Child Will:
Learn to feel capable about herself in many different areas, for example, music, sports, drawing
Feel good about who she is and what she can do
Parents Can:
Show their preschooler that he is loved unconditionally
Point out why he is special and so loved
Child Will:
Feel valued and experience a strong sense of belonging
Feel good about himself
Play
Through opportunities for play, preschoolers will experience joyful, free, spontaneous moments of fun while also learning about themselves and others.
Parents Can:
Provide crayons, markers and paper and encourage their preschooler to draw pictures of happy events
Talk with her about the picture and write down her story
Child Will:
Use her creativity to express emotions and related ideas
Identify and talk about feelings in relation to events
Parents Can:
Provide their preschooler with the opportunity to be with other familiar children in a supervised setting without them. For example, kindergarten or instruction programs, such as swimming
Child Will:
Begin to separate easily from family in familiar settings
Feel good about his ability to play with other children independent of a primary caregiver
Develop strategies to deal with conflicts that may arise with a friend
Parents Can:
Create a dramatic play area together where their preschooler can experiment with roles, situations and emotions
Join the play with their preschooler in this area, or arrange for a playmate to come over
Child Will:
Experiment with different roles and situations
Use language to create stories
Use his creativity to explore familiar and unfamiliar situations and events
Teach
Through routines, and emotionally and physically safe and secure environments, preschoolers can learn how to think, solve problems and communicate.
Parents Can:
Model and coach their preschooler on how to handle emotions and feelings
Child Will:
Learn how to express anger and frustration safely
Learn how to express caring and empathy for others
Parents Can:
Model persistence and patience in all their efforts and tasks
Child Will:
Learn that sticking to something, and not giving up easily will bring a sense of accomplishment and pride
Parents Can:
Support their preschooler's bid to take risks in social situations, as well as everyday tasks
Child Will:
Feel confident in her abilities
Understand that motivation to try out new things can bring successes