Social Development means being able to make friends and get along with others, to work as part of a team and be a good leader, all of which are built on self-confidence, cooperation and trust.
Emerging Skills
Play in a group of children
Assert independence (for example, when dressing and undressing)
Understand and follow simple rules
Greet familiar adults
Express preferences about playmates and experiences
Through the comfort and responsiveness of an adult, toddlers will learn how to handle their emotions and how to seek help when needed.
Parents Can:
Use everyday experiences to praise and encourage positive behaviour
Child Will:
Begin to develop social skills
Feel good about herself in groups
Feel a sense of belonging
Parents Can:
Offer opportunities to play in water and sand
Child Will:
Enjoy the sensory experience of these materials
Enjoy messing about, and creating on his own terms
Parents Can:
Share a quiet activity together, such as reading a book or watching a favourite TV show
Child Will:
Enjoy spending one-on-one time with you
Feel valued because you made time for him
Play
Through opportunities for play, toddlers will experience joyful, free, spontaneous moments of fun while also learning about themselves and others.
Parents Can:
Provide opportunities to play with other children
Child Will:
Enjoy playing in a group
Learn about others, and begin to practice playing cooperatively
Feel a sense of belonging
Parents Can:
Take their toddler to the neighbourhood park or playground and support her efforts to play and learn alongside other children
Child Will:
Enjoy activities in a different environment, with others
Start to understand the social rules of interaction
Experience waiting her turn for equipment, such as swings and slides
Parents Can:
Introduce simple "let's pretend" games that anticipate typical interactions. For example, "Let's pretend that you're talking to Daddy on the phone" or "Let's pretend we're going to the store for groceries."
Child Will:
Build on experiences that he has memories of
Practice his language skills using his imagination
Teach
Through routines, and emotionally and physically safe and secure environments, toddlers can learn how to think, solve problems and communicate.
Parents Can:
Talk to their toddler about limits in a positive way, saying "Please do this" instead of "Don't do this"
Child Will:
Be more likely to cooperate and respect limits
Be more likely to comply with requests
Parents Can:
Provide clothing that's easy for their toddler to put on herself
Allow their toddler to help choose her clothes for the day
Child Will:
Be more likely to cooperate with dressing and undressing
Feel that her opinions are valued and respected
Parents Can:
Play simple turn-taking games, such as "Red light, green light"