The Power of Parenting
Thursday, 24 September 2020
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Emotional Development means the development of a full range of emotions from sad to happy to angry, and learning to deal with them appropriately. This helps build self-esteem and leads to such deeper qualities as sympathy, caring, resiliency, assertiveness and empathy and the ability to rise to life’s challenges.
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Typical Skills
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Beginning to develop a range of emotions; is subject to mood swings and tantrums; shows some aggressive tendencies, e.g., biting and hitting
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Shows concern for others
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Shows fears, but can be settled down
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Is pulled between the need to show independence and still being dependent for certain things
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Still cautious around unfamiliar adults i.e. allows self to be drawn into play with a new adult as long as a familiar person is nearby
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Emerging Skills
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Uses words such as “no” a lot
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Shares a piece of food
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Familiar with routines and the order of the day; is unhappy about any changes in routine and likes to do things the same way each day
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Develops a sense of comfort or fear with different experiences and objects, e.g., fear of the dark
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- Recognize and name your child’s emotions, e.g., “Your crying tells me you are sad”
- Suggest ways to deal with her feelings, e.g., “When you feel angry, come and get a grown-up for help”
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- Learn the words to use when talking about feelings
- Feel comforted and supported to see there are ways to deal with her emotions
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- Sing songs that use emotion words, e.g., “If you’re happy and you know it, clap your hands”
- Read stories that explore different emotions and discuss them simply from the character’s perspective
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- Begin to associate certain emotions with behaviours
- Begin to see what can make other sad, happy, angry, etc.
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- Notice when your child is frustrated and step in to help him deal with his emotions
- Offer your child different choices to help him cope with his feelings
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- Know he can rely on you to help him cope with his emotions
- Begin to develop some strategies to deal with his emotions
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